Ok well this will be kinda long and sorry about that guys! Just want a little advice from some peers. Ok, when I was about four, I was at my grandma’s house. My brother came in with this girl. I don’t remember too much that day but I remember the first day I met her. Anyway, a year later (I was about five) they got married. I didn’t get to see them too much, probably like two or three times a year. I would see them the beginning of the year and Thanksgiving and Christmas. She would buy me a lot of toys too for Christmas. I have asked my mother once how they met, and she told me, they met on a dating site and their meeting place was at a coffee shop. She was a real bad smoker. My mom didn’t know that she was until she road in her car one day with my brother and he told her (she wasn’t around). My dad had no idea though. I told him later, and he said "She did a good job hiding it." If you went in her house or even looked at her, you couldn’t tell that she did at all! But if you were to look at her back porch, there would be a pack of cigarettes and a cigarette lighter. She told me one Dec. that she was going to quit in Jan. but I saw her March and she didn’t quit yet. She made me promise not to tell my parents that she smoked (but my mom knew). She started being mean to me when I was in my early teen years. She was like super preppy and she was obsessed with table manners. She would get mad at me if I accidentally burped. And she once got mad at me for going to the table "too quick". She would complain to me about my clothing every time we saw each other. She would tell me that the things I was interested in was trashy and I needed to dress more like her. I’m 5’8 now but back when I was 5’6, she was about my height but she wore high heels like all the time. So much she had to have surgery on her feet. When she would come to my country home, she would go on and on about how she should have brought her running shoes. My brother and her had a couple of cats that she was in love with, but she decided she hated them when she got her dachshund. She would randomly say "I wish they would die". I do believe that she used to pick them up and throw them around alot. We own the cats now and when we try to pick them up, they act sort of scared. Anyway, she was so in love with her dog. Once, I stayed at their house for 4 days, and she took me to see Wicked and she was super nice to me. But the very next day, when I was getting ready to leave, she acts all hateful towards me and talks bad about my clothes. I was very interested in Gothic Lolita fashion and she bad mouthed it and said those Asians were freaks. A month later, I was going to be in a dance pageant and her family Xmas party was going to be on the same day. My brother told her that he wanted to go watch me instead of going to the party and she told him that, "Your being selfish wanting to go see her instead of going to the party with me." They came that Thanksgiving and my mom was showing my sister my dress and costume for the dance pageant, and sis-in-law saw it, and she got mad. She was mad for the rest of that day, and she was jealous that me and my sister had matching hats. I could tell because she said something mean about it. Anyway, next month was the pageant, and the last minute, and my bro and sis-in-law ended up coming to the pageant. She ended up getting mad at her family so they came to it. She told me I did well and everything. Then on Xmas, she gives me a lot of clothes (even "gothic" looking clothes that I like and she dislikes). She wasn’t able to have children. She got pregnant twice during the marriage but it resulted in miscarriages instead. She got so depressed. Her sister ended up having a baby though, not too long before she divorced. My sis-n-law kept going through therapy, but she still couldn’t bear kids. I’m not lying about this, but she was the vice-president of the Zaxby’s Corporation. She got to go on so many business trips. She was on one right before she got back and kicked my brother out of her house. She kicked him out and then she wanted him to come back. He did but he decided that he should just leave for good because he knew it would happen again, because it happened many times before. Then she got mad. She kept me and my mom friends on facebook, but she blocked us were we couldn’t see her wall. I wrote her a letter thanking her for some gifts and I told her that I’m sorry about this and I willl miss her and her dog. I told her, I understand if you don’t want to keep in touch anymore. She didn’t respond. Three months after the divorce, I removed her from my friends, since she didn’t talk to me anyway. And my mom did too after she saw what I done. Then ex-SIN sent my mom a private message and asked why we removed her. First thing she ever says to us after forever. Then my mom said we figured you didn&#39
Then my mom said we figured you didn’t want us on your friend’s list. and she said "Oh I just had y’all filtered out." and then she complains about my brother and says that he was abusive towards her and she has absolutely no love towards him. (Then why did they remain friends?) She jsut started playing victim pretty much, She was the one control freakish towards my brother
my mom told her "We’ll you need to realize, my daughter is still a child and it affects her a lot." then ex-sil says "We’ll he was mean to me bla bla bla." and then she asks if my mom wants some xmas ornaments back. Soon after the divorce, she started dating this dude (I saw online in some pics) and she got married soon after and started being nice to his daughter. She just had a baby last spring. That’s what makes me angry. I looked up to this lady and she ends up being b****. She even told me when I was little that she would be my second mom.
Anyway, my brother has a new gf, but I’m kinda of scared of her lol. But I still have dreams about the other one so much.
I don’t know u man sorry!
I don’t find matches through the net lol
u don’t even know what I look like
whatever, lol
I’m a man xD
sorry xD
sorry I’m not 18!

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